Comments for Adventures of Cody & Heather

Comment on Heading Out by Dianna

Dianna — Sat, 04 Jun 2011 20:44:41 +0000

I am so happy for you two… Enjoy your anniversary weekend… and, of course, be safe… LOVE you both bunches…

Comment on Processing… by Marilyn

Marilyn — Sat, 02 Apr 2011 04:59:15 +0000

No matter what the feelings are or the name that you give them, know that you are allowed the whole gamut of them and that you are loved and accepted along with your feelings.

Comment on Family Union by Heather Swanson

Heather Swanson — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 19:53:03 +0000

Leave it to you to just jump right in – no taking it slowly, meeting one or two folks at a time… lol

But, Macy’s right – as someone who is also from an extremely large family – keeping it completely organized doesn’t matter (although I do realize that’s part of who you and Heather are!) – what matters is what goes forward. YOu will have a blast, make new connections – some folks you’ll have lots in common with, some not so much. Enjoy the new experiences!!

Miss ya both lots!

Comment on Family Union by macey

macey — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 07:31:20 +0000

I love family reunions. And even though my parents are pretty good about keeping in touch with their extended families, combined they have over 100 first cousins, not all still living. I have a huge family that is never entirely together no matter how hard we all try, but there is so much affection and love and something else you get only from being together. And don’t worry too much about keeping the family tree organized, because the only part that matters is that there is a connection.

Comment on 18 Month Wedding Album by Marilyn Beaudette

Marilyn Beaudette — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 09:28:43 +0000

Very, very nicely done. I like the flow and the voice in it! It was a very wonderful week and a beautiful day for everyone–even if there was a tear in my eye!

Comment on 18 Month Wedding Album by Heather

Heather — Sat, 25 Dec 2010 04:44:32 +0000

Thanks to Penny, Kaley, Dan, Nick, & Alex for the photo-shooting to make this beautiful album possible! You all rock! )

Comment on Adventures in Self by Dutch Marc

Dutch Marc — Sat, 04 Dec 2010 16:51:03 +0000

Great post. Thxs for sharing. Glad to read that you guys found “the path” and self awareness is very powerful. So awesome that you guys are exploring this together. This is a great gift. Learn about “self” and forget about “self” as Da Buddha showed us.

Comment on Adventures in Self by Joel

Joel — Sat, 04 Dec 2010 07:56:22 +0000

This is a great post. Gets my mind going in many directions. My own growth process over the past year has been a challenging one to say the least. The point I feel inclined to make is regarding the sense of self, self-love, self-worth, perception of wholeness etc. What I have come to understand is that any process which equates feelings about the self with anything external to my own body and mind is an unhealthy one. That is to say any feelings of self worth I have which are conditional on the reaction of others, or on my perceived success or failure within a social environment, are unhealthy and doomed to fail.

To view this idea through a religious lens – which I have been trying to do lately – God made me whole, and whole I am. I need not consume, compete, or condition myself to understand or achieve this.

To apply this concept to relationships, if I don’t achieve my self-worth and love internally, I will seek it from others. To say that another way, I will take it from others. With all the clever and manipulative capabilities of my human mind.

Thanks for writing me that letter. It really did make a difference.

Comment on Wet Ride by cody

cody — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 00:34:56 +0000

I’m not sure who took who! I think it was a jointly coordinated ride… I’m hoping that we can establish an ongoing weekly ride until conditions are too icy to be safe.

Thanks for the comments about the site – it’s a nice way that I can share my thoughts with others, and the whole “adventures” title allows me free license to post anything I do (whereas our wedding blog was mostly just about the whole wedding topic… I guess I should have thought of that before I built that one up!)

Comment on Wet Ride by Tia

Tia — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 00:13:17 +0000

That looks like a helluva rockin’ ride! Good for you guys and I’m glad you took my dad! Or did he take you?
Nice website, I definitely like the idea of blogging your adventures.